Sorry if i'm Preachy

One of my basic principles of my belief is that everyone has their choices to make for their life.
And i'm no supposed to be preachy to make people take my view and take the choice that i would. But today, its kinda different. Cause sometimes we just have to make choices when we have to and this is for my friend.

I believe that as a person, we should not judge others, how they live and what choices they make. As queer it might sound, i believe that the only person or position to judge people is that "someone" up there.. or "them" if possible. ( i'll tell u guys when i figure who's up there).
But not to digress.. i believe that ur friends make choices that u might not agree with, and u should not hold them responsible more than they already ah.

I wont tell u how to live your life as i trust u as my friend to make the right choices and to be responsible. Thats why i don tell my friends to quit drinking, clubbing or in that matter stay of the pork lard char quay tiao. And no matter how much it ticks u off when they make stupid choices, excuses or anything that ticks u off for that matter, u should still forgive them at the end of the day and not get upset all about it.

Life's short enough to live already, so why still take things so seriously and judge ur friends from their actions? You are not in their shoes and you wont know why they made that choice. No one knows except for them. So, be understanding and learn to close an eye and forgive.

You don't need friends to be with u all the time. The cool part is to be there when they need you. No matter how long its been since u've seen each other. True friends just come back to each other, just a matter of time. And life's not that bad when that happens.

So yeah, give ur friends a little slack and enjoy each other's company....
So as to not look back and regret.